A National Holiday created in 2003, National Good
Neighbor Day was celebrated this year on September 28th – did you
know that? We all know and appreciate good neighbors, but what about the other
end of the spectrum – the not-so-good neighbor? You might build or buy a home that’s
a perfect sanctuary, but you have little control over what happens around it,
especially when it comes to neighbors. Whether your dwelling is urban, suburban
or on a private island, if you’re human, you’re bound to be irritated by things
your neighbors do.
In a recent poll, ImproveNet, an online home improvement
site, set out to identify the cities in America where neighbors roil each other
most, and a laundry list of the most common complaints. They surveyed residents
from 24 of the biggest cities in America, and, inevitably, there were winners
and losers. Atop the list of most annoying
cities are Dallas, Miami and Austin. New York was 6th on the list.
Cities where neighbors are least annoying
include Minneapolis, Portland and Atlanta.
Without question, noise is the leading offense. Loud music is the top
culprit in that category. People also cite loud adults, kids, pets and parties
as top ten issues. Loud talking and shouting is the second most annoying thing
that neighbors do!
General grumpiness also made the top ten, along with parking issues and dog
poop. Other modes of annoyance include smells (tobacco, pets, cooking) and
filth (overflowing garbage, dirty yard, dirty home exterior) and boundary
disputes.
The poll also asked respondents, “Did you confront anyone about it?”
Results were close to an even split—56% have confronted a neighbor. For those
who have, face-to-face is the preferred method, followed by calling the police,
phone call, through an association, or an attorney.
This poll certainly should makes us stop
and consider if we are good neighbors.
It is worth the effort, it will only make our community a better place
to live.
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